It Starts with Us

It Starts with Us

Book • 2022

Before It Ends with Us, it started with Atlas.

Multi-million copy bestselling author Colleen Hoover tells fan favourite Atlas’s side of the story and shares what comes next in this long-anticipated sequel to the #1 Sunday Times bestseller It Ends with Us


Lily and her ex-husband, Ryle, have just settled into a civil co-parenting rhythm when she suddenly bumps into her first love, Atlas, again. After nearly two years separated, she is elated that for once, time is on their side, and she immediately says yes when Atlas asks her on a date.

But her excitement is quickly hampered by the knowledge that, though they are no longer married, Ryle is still very much a part of her life—and Atlas Corrigan is the one man he will hate being in his ex-wife and daughter’s life.

Switching between the perspectives of Lily and Atlas, It Starts with Us picks up right where the epilogue for the bestselling phenomenon It Ends with Us left off.

Experience the romantic and satisfying conclusion to Colleen Hoover's powerful global bestselling novel, It Ends with Us.

Bara says...

Ages 17+, but every child is different

This narrative deals with mature themes including the complexities of post-divorce dynamics, co-parenting with a volatile ex-partner, and the nuances of adult romantic relationships. Its emotional intensity and focus on adult life challenges make it unsuitable for younger audiences.

Content Safety Breakdown

Detailed breakdown of potentially concerning content

Sex & Nudity

3/5

The story contains several romantic scenes featuring intimate kissing and sexual tension between the main characters. While there is no explicit graphic content, the themes are focused on adult relationships and physical intimacy.

Violence & Gore

1/5

There is no physical combat or gore, but the narrative deals with the lingering emotional impact of past domestic abuse. Tension exists regarding the threat of verbal or psychological intimidation from an ex-partner.

Profanity

3/5

The book contains moderate profanity used in casual conversation and emotional outbursts, including words like f*ck (frequently used), sh*t, and h*ll. Language is reflective of adult interpersonal conflict.

Alcohol, Drugs & Smoking

2/5

Characters are occasionally depicted consuming alcohol in social settings like restaurants or during dates. These instances are typical of adult social behavior and are not central to the plot.

Frightening Scenes

3/5

The story includes significant psychological tension and emotional distress regarding a character's safety and custody situation. The intensity stems from the fear of a volatile ex-husband rather than traditional scary imagery.

Key Insights

Quick summary and important considerations

This is an adult drama about navigating difficult life choices, building healthy relationships, and finding strength after moving through personal hardships.

Content Warnings

Domestic abuse
Emotional manipulation

Detailed Analysis

In-depth insights for parents and educators

What Parents Need to Know

The story centers on a woman balancing a new relationship with the ongoing struggle of co-parenting alongside an abusive, volatile ex-husband. It addresses themes of stalking, emotional manipulation, and the persistent impact of past trauma.

What Kids Can Learn

Readers can reflect on the necessity of maintaining personal autonomy and the importance of healthy, respectful partnership models.

Key Topics Discussed

Co-parenting
Romantic relationships
Personal autonomy

Why Parents Might Like It

It offers an emotionally resonant look at the possibility of second chances and the pursuit of a peaceful life following traumatic events.

Positives & Learning

What makes this content valuable for children

Positive Messages

4/5

Emphasizes the importance of personal healing, resilience, and prioritizing emotional safety. It highlights the value of healthy communication and self-advocacy in challenging interpersonal environments.

Positive Role Models

4/5

Protagonists demonstrate strong boundaries and prioritize the well-being of a child, showcasing maturity in the face of persistent conflict. Characters model the strength required to pursue happiness while managing difficult pasts.

Diverse Representations

2/5

No diverse representation indicated in available information.

Educational Value

2/5

Provides insight into social-emotional intelligence, specifically concerning conflict resolution and self-care in high-stress relationship dynamics.

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